First Love
What is the meaning of first love in your mind? When the first time you fell in love?
Or, which one your first love is?
I am writing this topic because am bothering so much about fiction story made by friend about "First Love".
The title of her fiction is "I thought wrong: Of first love and letting go"
There is a man and a woman that have steady relationship for more than 5 years but still anxious for their first love.
After their first love story was ended, they never seen each other, than after than 5 years when they’re meet again each other, they still have "un-certain" look, uncomfortable feeling, groggy action, although their partner beside them that time.
Can’t stop thinking but "how can that be?" that was I can said.
OK, for me, actually I am not sure too, which one my first love is. But, if may i add one word in that first love thing, I would add the "real" word on that. So I can call it, "My real first love", and for me, my real first love is my latest love, why?.
Yeah, the love that I can stand with it till the day when I say "I do" thats I will call as my first love and as my last love too.
And, still wanna know whats your opinion about your first love?
I was asked to my friends about that, either she is married, I had ask her :
"Are you jealous with your husband first love when they’re maybe meet up someday?"
then she said:
"No way, why should I jealous, he’s marry me already!"
Hahaha smart answer that makes me relief.
Then I asked someone else, this time is single but in relationship:
"What if someday you will meet up with your first love?"
He said :
"Nothing … say Hi maybe"
And I asked again :
"You’ve your girlfriend beside you, and you meet her your first love, then will you feel awkward? Or maybe if she now have a better shape of her body you’ll drool by looking at her?"
He said :
"Nah No, I have her, why should I drooling. Beside dont judge that every man are the same."
Maksudnya, tidak semua laki - laki ? Lah malah dangdutan.
So what do you think guys? Which one your first love is? And What do you think about first love?
I believe everyone have different perception and different comment about it, and I’ll always appreciate it.
Thank to Mitzelle and Laine Sista for the inspiration.
Image credit to : seekyledraw





yanti said:
buat aku sih yang paling berkesan bukan first loveku justru. tapi ada lah yang lain =)).
but still, why should we be jealous.
Comment posted on 6 July, 2007 @ 15:35
tukang nggedeblues said:
selamat hari raya Idul Fitri, mohon maaf lahir dan batin atas segala kesalahan dan kekhilafan selama berinteraksi lewat media blog … semoga silaturahmi tetap terjalin
mulih jogja ra, jeng tri?
Comment posted on 21 October, 2007 @ 17:22
monsterikan said:
wah, soal 1st love gue ga bagus ceritanya. hehe, hidup sekali 1st lovenya ga beres
Comment posted on 30 October, 2007 @ 20:48
tuteh said:
setiap kali ke sini mesti rasanya nyamaaan banged :p saya pernah bilang blognya cool
huekekeke… btw met Valentine, jeng! *colek*
Comment posted on 14 February, 2008 @ 17:25
tuteh said:
blom di apdet yak hehehe
Comment posted on 10 June, 2008 @ 23:58